Dr Micheal Carr-Gregg has described our youngest generation as “born with a mouse in their hands” …. 1. Recognize the signs of internet addiction. A young person may: 2. Never allow a computer in a young person’s bedroom. Instead ensure the computer is centrally located within the home 3. Monitor and supervise the young person whenever they are on the computer 4. Draw up an online family contract. See a template on: 5. Know your child’s or young person’s password 6. Use a internet filter www.nettysworld.com.au (suitable for 2-7 year olds) 7. Use “Google alerts” to become aware of any information about your son/ daughter/ young person circulating in Cyber Space; www.google.com/alerts 8. Role model responsible behaviour 9. TALK with your child/young person about what they are doing on the internet. And remember ... fight the fights that are worth fighting, think about enforcing “non-negotiable” items and remain consistent and united in approaches to parenting! Reference help sites: The above information has been adapted from a Seminar conducted by Dr Micheal Carr-Gregg in May 2009. http://www.michaelcarr-gregg.com.au/ Regina Tyson
Cyber Safety is an issue that concerns not only our young people but Parents, Guardians and Carers ...
Young people have an “inability to see around corners” and as Parents/Guardians and Carers we do have a responsibility to protect through instilling, enforcing and evaluating boundaries and discipline.
When thinking about Cyber Safety we can:
- crave computer time
- prefer online time than one on one time with family
- neglect family and friends
- check his/her email BEFORE anything else
- become withdrawn
- shout, yell, and become annoyed if interrupted whilst online
- feel empty, depressed, and irritable when not on the computer
- experience problems at school and/ or work
www.microsoft.com/protect/family/guidelines/contract/mspx
www.cyberquall.com.au (suitable for 8-12 year olds)
www.cybernetrix.com.au (suitable for 13-16 year olds)
www.kidshelp.com.au
www.wiseuptoit.com.au
The Wise up to IT DVD is also available free of charge. Order online or telephone the Australian Communications and Media Authority (ACMA) on 1300 669 024.
Reference book: “Real Wired Child”; by Micheal Carr-Gregg.
School Based Youth Health Nurse
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